Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

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Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Freya » Sat May 18, 2019 2:40 am

I am not sure if anyone can help on this forum as I realise this will take some time. After a failed IVF cycle and a miscarriage I am so traumatised and reluctant to go through this again without having checked my chart.

I wish I had the skills to do it, but apart from looking at transits and lunar returns I am not sure how to use other predictive tecniques and feel quite overwhelmed and afraid that I may miss something obvious (and ominous)

So far it seems that the month of August or September is the earliest I can start another ivf cycle. This time it will be located in Athens, Greece.

If there is a good soul who can help me shed some clarity as to the best time to face another cycle, I would be eternally grateful.

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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Jim Eshelman » Sat May 18, 2019 8:15 am

I can give you a broad approach, though in the near future I won't have a chance to do anything sufficiently thorough so perhaps someone else can help?

Broadly, it's a matter of looking at the larger cycles to get the positives you want and to avoid the negatives then narrow it to a tighter region,then fine-tune.

You said you were looking at Athens. Your Solar Return for Athens has nothing particular happening. (There are always the lunar aspects, of course.) It isn't likely that a major life event will occur without representation in the Solar, so you might at least try to set the SSR up with the best indications as a start. Looking at an astro-map for Europe, my strongest suggestion is to get away from the area around London and due south (which includes western France and eastern Spain: this is the line where you have Mars square Midheaven. Mars squares Uranus, and the Uranus line is the longitude of mid-France.

I don't know how much you can travel for your birthday. To get a really spectacular chart (say, putting the exact Moon-Jupiter square angular), you;d have to go to, say, eastern Turkey.or western Russia. (Moscow puts Mon, Jupiter, and Neptune on angles.)

But if you can't do "perfection," then "really good" will do - and you get "really good" in the new SSR if you avoid the worst stuff and let that exact Moon-Jupiter square carry the day. Anyplace from, say, Germany or Italy eastward has cleared the other factors.

After that, look at transits and progressions to avoid a time when seriously bad stuff appears and optimize good cycles. When you get a general range, start running your lunar and demi-lunar returns for Athens and look for an optimal time.
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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Freya » Sat May 18, 2019 10:23 am

Thank you Jim, that was eye opening. Somehow I was confusing the relocated natal chart with the SSR chart, I was under the impression that even if I travelled on my birthday, I would still have the 2019 SSR in Southampton once I returned home. From what you write I gather that it is not the same.

I could go back to visit my parents on my birthday for the weekend, I would be in Florence, Italy. This way uranus, mars foreground will not feature in my next SSR.

After this, would you look at transits to natal or transits to the SSR? What progressions do you use? Secondary? I have never looked at a progressed chart before

THANK YOU for the warning, I wasn't planning to go anywhere but I will definitely NOT be in the UK for my birthday this year

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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Jupiter Sets at Dawn » Sat May 18, 2019 11:32 am

Progressions are done at a rate of a day for a year, meaning they use the 60th day after birth to predict the 60th year after birth. So unless you were moved to a new place before your first birthday, you would always do them for your birthplace.
There's a somewhat confused thread with Jim explaining Secondary Progressions with angles using the Solar Arc. I forget if you have Solar Fire or use astro.com, but there are instuctions for both.
If you would go through that and come back with your questions, it would be easier for others to help you. The whole section on Transits and Progressons is probably worth at least a skim to get an overview. Progressed planets are read pretty much just like transiting planets.

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Post by Jim Eshelman » Sat May 18, 2019 11:40 am

You're welcome, but... wait, the Fierenze Midheaven of your SSR is 19°47' Aries, so it pouts your NATAL Mars-Saturn on an angle. You should avoid there also. (Be sure to check the full SSR for any location you pick.)

As for location, the basic idea has never changed - we've always held that the SSR is valid where it sets up, but then relocates back to wherever you move during the year - but I've been adjusting my sense of how much weight to give to either. A few presidential contenders visited somewhere on their birthday and that chart seemed to stick for the duration (I think Obama was in Chicago one year for his birthday and picked up a Jupiter, that sort of thing). Marion and I had been traveling on our birthdays and picking good spots, figuring that even if the SSR reverted to Los Angeles angles when we came home, at least we'd have a good birthday. But I've come to think it's more, truly like a natal chart that relocates.

You never lose your natal chart. It's always the primary voice of your being throughout your life. But when you relocate, your natal shifts to add additional elements that are distinctive to that location.

I've come to think the Solar Return works the same way (though I'll be able to tell you better come October when my current SSR is over.) Set up my current (October 2018) SSR for both Los Angeles and Milwaukee. The LA chart is quite severe. I think there's a reasonable chance that if I'd had my birthday in LA, I'd be dead now, or at least have had very serious health problems. Instead, I picked the best place in the country - which turned out to be Milwaukee - and we took an awesome two-week vacation, half of which was in Milwaukee over my birthday. Don't forget to add natal planets for the full effect.

So I have a Solar Return that first set up in Milwaukee - that's its "natal" - and then I came back to LA where the chart is as severe as any I can recall seeing. Bottom line, so far the year has been quite good. Health issues have been minor (a skin condition from an allergic reaction on the trip) that took three months to shake, etc. But all the big health stuff is better than it's been in years. I'm getting married in 9 days - that's the Milwaukee chart talking, not the LA one! (The Saturn rising for LA has probably been the "add-on layer" of financial drain, e.g., essentially wiping out my liquid net worth to pay for the wedding.)

There is still a third of the year to go, but the first two-thirds have clearly been shown primarily by the Milwaukee chart.

In the worst case, picking a location for your SSR doesn't make things worse - and you get a nice birthday out of it :)
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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Freya » Sun May 19, 2019 2:11 am

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You're welcome, but... wait, the Fierenze Midheaven of your SSR is 19°47' Aries, so it pouts your NATAL Mars-Saturn on an angle. You should avoid there also. (Be sure to check the full SSR for any location you pick.)
Oh no!!!!! :( It was the only place I could travel to, for the only reason that I am broke, and my parents would pay for my flight to go see them as a birthday present. This really sucks. So now I am stuck between two bad options

1. Stay in Southampton with a Mars-Uranus SSR
2. Go to Florence and have my natal Mars-Saturn become angular, but no mars-uranus in the SSR. However I would still pick up the angular Mars-Uranus once I return to Southampton, plus I would have picked up Saturn as well to make matters worse. Is my understanding correct?

I know the effects of Mars-Saturn in my life, nothing has been easy to achieve fore me. At least it is not angular in my natal chart, and I don't want that angular.

Which of these options is likey to give better prospects for pregnancy? Which one is the lesser of two evils?
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Jim, I was very intrigued by what you have written regarding your SSR in Los Angeles. Which indicators led you to fear that you'd probably be dead under this SSR in Los Angeles?

Congratulations on your wedding, what a different tone for an otherwise ominous SSR!
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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Jim Eshelman » Sun May 19, 2019 12:09 pm

OK, if I had to pick, I'd choose Southampton. Several little reason that I hope make it the right decision. If nothing else (even if the two locations are otherwise equal), exposing yourself to the painful family drama is punishment you don;t need and that won't help your stress levels. Also, I think (but don't know) that malefics on IC are more "family disrupting" than the other angles. Finally, even though Mars-Uranus has symbolism consistent with miscarriage, the simpler truth is that Mars-Uranus is nowhere near as bad as Mars-Saturn.

Time then to focus on having the best birthday possible to build good energy around it, loving your husband, looking for the intermediate patterns like transits and lunar returns to pick a time and place with the best other factors.
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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Freya » Tue May 21, 2019 12:01 pm

Jim Eshelman wrote:
Sun May 19, 2019 12:09 pm
Also, I think (but don't know) that malefics on IC are more "family disrupting" than the other angles. Finally, even though Mars-Uranus has symbolism consistent with miscarriage, the simpler truth is that Mars-Uranus is nowhere near as bad as Mars-Saturn.
I have had a consultation with the clinic today, and they want to see us for further investigation at the end of June, beginning of July before they even consider the best IVF treatment plan.

Today I got good news, I have been given a Saturday job I applied for last week, so by the end of June I should have just enough money to travel to Athens for the investigations.

Which brings up the next question...... Are my malefics on the IC if I spend my birthday in Athens this year? (Do you do a biwheel chart natal and SSR to see that Jim? I have been trying to figure how how you spotted that -- apart from years of experience lol) Do you always look at the mundoscope to see angular planets?

From the Athens SSR chart I see that my midheaven is not in Aries anymore but Taurus. If my natal malefics are no longer angular for Athens, it may be worth the extra expense to travel on a weekend and get out of the UK?

Also... I have noticed that this year my SSR kicks in a day after my birthday. Do I have to be in Athens on July 7 at 10.04.52 am, when my 2019 SSR becomes operational, to have the effects of the relocated return? (I am thinking of the return flight..)
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Post by SteveS » Tue May 21, 2019 2:39 pm

Freya,
You will receive another dynamic partile transit of Saturn to your Natal Moon and Natal Venus in Dec 2019 and early Jan 2020, which was exactly the same partile Saturn transit that timed your recent miscarriage. I suggest you do not consider becoming pregnant again until AFTER t. Saturn clears these dynamic partile transits to your Natal Moon-- Venus in Dec 2019/Jan 2020.

It is obvious to me your Natal Moon partile 90 your Natal Venus has much to do with your strong desires to become pregnant/motherhood. Some key sentences from Ebertin’s Book COSI on Moon-Venus symbolism:
Biological Correspondence: The female capability of conception.
Social Correspondence: Loving women, mothers, (also the expectant mothers)…
Probable Manifestations: (+) …the desire for motherhood.
Using Lunar Returns for electing good possible times for conception, I see a possible good time for you to conceive again with your Demi-Lunar (DSLR) on April 22 2020 in Athens Greece, if your biological cycle is proper for conception by IVF, with Doctor’s consent. Below is a link to your DSLR beginning on Wednesday April 22, 2020, 3:11:42 AM in Athens Greece. Anytime during the day on April 22 AFTER 3:11:42 AM is fine for the IVF procedure, imo.

Note DSLR Venus is partile cnj DSLR IC in Athens, setting-up a strong Venus theme for your DSLR. Also Note t. Mercury will partile cnj your DSLR Moon during the day on April 22, as well as partile 90 your Natal Venus. This t. Mercury should set-up an excellent time to receive good/harmonious news about conception, and also-- an excellent time for travel plans, imo.

Please understand/know: your Doctor’s consent should supersede with priority over my astrological analysis.

April 22, 2020 Demi Sidereal Lunar Return (DSLR):
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Post by Jupiter Sets at Dawn » Tue May 21, 2019 3:36 pm

I agree with Steve.

You'll also have more money saved up so that will help relieve that stress and will maybe be able to set up for more than one round of IVF so you aren't on such a rollercoaster.

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Post by Jim Eshelman » Tue May 21, 2019 3:51 pm

I agree with Steve about waiting until after the final Saturn transits before trying again, though I see no reason not to do investigation, medical tests, inquiries, etc. to get information and help plan for the future. - You can also simply take the chance to enjoy a vacation in Athens :)
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Which brings up the next question...... Are my malefics on the IC if I spend my birthday in Athens this year? (Do you do a biwheel chart natal and SSR to see that Jim? I have been trying to figure how how you spotted that -- apart from years of experience lol) Do you always look at the mundoscope to see angular planets?
You have neither natal nor transiting planets on angles in your next SSR for Athens. (Natal Uranus is barely foreground, but not really important.) In the absence of these, Moon's aspects are most important and those include a 0°09' square to Jupiter and a 2°28' opposition to Neptune.

Yes, you can look at this as a biwheel, that's the recommended way (with natal planets always on the inside ring and SSR planet on the outside). Here's a special Solar Fire wheel design to make that easy:
https://solunars.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=13

Yes, ultimately we check the mundoscope for angularity. That's easy to do with the SSR planets. It's not easy to do for natal planets. You can estimate them closely enough by the zodiac, but we have a spreadsheet for making the calculations when you want to do refined, detailed work.
If my natal malefics are no longer angular for Athens, it may be worth the extra expense to travel on a weekend and get out of the UK?
It would have the advantage of getting away from the malefics. You would still encounter them when you went back, and there aren't any strong angularities in Athens to outweigh them, but I can't help but think it would take some pressure off.

What's really interesting to me is that your Athens SSR angles are almost precisely the same as your natal chart angles. There is something "at home with yourself" in the pattern. Athens SSR MC is 2°04' Taurus, your natal MC 2°16' Taurus. (The two Ascendants are about 4° apart.) This is unusual (one time in 360).
Also... I have noticed that this year my SSR kicks in a day after my birthday. Do I have to be in Athens on July 7 at 10.04.52 am, when my 2019 SSR becomes operational, to have the effects of the relocated return? (I am thinking of the return flight..)
To get the effect of locking this in as your Solar Return, you would need to be in Athens July 7, 10:04 AM EEDT. At least for that minute. If you could swing 30 more hours there, that would secure it even better; but, at least at that time.
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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Freya » Thu May 23, 2019 10:56 am

THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart Jim and Steve. You have given me precious, life-changeing information that I will treasure for months to come.

I am now going to Greece for tests from July 4 to 8, thus changing my 2019 SSR THANKS TO YOU GUYS. I really don't know how to express my gratitude. I will also avoid December/January.

Curiously, I thought that a birth should also be reflected in my husband's chart. He was born on August 27 1972 in Southampton, England at 14.15

He has Jupiter, Venus and Neptune foreground this coming SSR. Not sure what to make of Neptune, but it seems that he has a very good SSR, matching the symbolism of a birth (but I may be wrong!)
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I am curious about something.... does being in a location immediately before the new SSR secure it in any way?
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Re: Electing a Favorable Time for IVF Pregnancy

Post by Freya » Sun Jun 02, 2019 4:53 am

So it looks like the doctor does't want to test my husband around my birthday, as it is too early. I will be staying in the UK with Mars/Uranus in my next SSR :?

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